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“So what are you looking for?” 

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Lots of people are afraid of getting hurt, are fearful of rejection. In fact, I’d go as far to say even that the ones who do put themselves out there time and time again are also scared. But maybe they’re just braver than me.

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The ways guys ask for sex.

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And who knows—you might make a friend who you continue to keep in touch with and visit for years to come. How awesome would that be?

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That’s right, obligaswiping, like ghosting or submarining, is a new dating trend that’s probably ruining your love life. Except this time, you’re much more likely to be the one guilty of doing it.

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It’s best when the cheese stands alone. Please don’t mostly or only post pictures of you with other people.

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If we’re all being honest here, there is a fine line between playing a flirty hard-to-get game with the person you’re “seeing” or “talking to,” versus just being a dick about communication.

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This is probably a bad idea.