What I learned sometimes people need to grow about before they have any chance of growing back together. Sometimes it’s only after you truly lose someone do you understand their value. And if you’re lucky, if you’re really lucky you find your way back to each other again.
Walking away is not taking the easy way out. Walking away from a life of sadness and hostility was one of the bravest things I have ever done.
You see her for the first time in a while. Her eyes no longer brightened when they met with yours. This is when you lost her.
Only when you learn how to hold these feelings dear to your heart will you ever be able to find its sole purpose.
You deserve to feel like you can take on the world and that you are worthy – just as you are.
So you’ve gotten ghosted a bunch of times. Who hasn’t though? This is just a part of dating, unfortunately. You have two options, deal with it some more until you find the right person to be with or don’t date at all.
Maybe the truth is that I want to give you that second chance — a small part of me longs to — but I can’t be that person anymore. Because people don’t change even when they promise to, and I can’t keep holding onto hope when all signs point to the cold, hard truth: you already hurt me once, and pretending that you won’t do it again is just me fooling myself.
