I will not swallow my truth. Because each time you do, your voice, your heart, and your soul shrink a little more.
Habits You Have
They ruin days that aren’t all about them with fights and anger.
1. Trying to follow your old “love script.” In other words, comparing what you have to how you think love “should” go. Who should make more money, how you should meet, what they will look like.
I’ll never understand why you have to send less emojis so you don’t sound too excited.
You don’t have to instantly be good with money in order to be an “adult”. You just have to start to be better than you were before.
Your need to have the last word.
Agency, independence and the ability to thrive on your own terms is very threatening to a toxic individual. Toxic people require that their victims be isolated – success, economic empowerment and a solid support network all threaten this, so they feel they have to take back the reins on the parts of your life that grant you a sense of stability and self-actualization.
Success doesn’t come easy. It’s the product of dedication, talent, hard work, and a lot of learning.
Going out of your way to check the social media feeds of people who you know will make you jealous or upset. Being subtly addicted to this “high.”