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What’s a man to do if he’s never had the proper childhood instruction in not raping?

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Your parents’ favorite TV show is Portlandia, but they’re too full of themselves to realize they’re just like Fred and Carrie.

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I am a straight, white, married, American man. I am a feminist.

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5. Be a Husband and a Father, Not a Baby Daddy.

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The video simply, but effectively, boils down some of the main cultural pressures which create and perpetuate misogyny, specifically gay male misogyny. It’s worth a watch precisely because though it doesn’t let anyone off the hook for their actions, it isn’t about trying to place blame.