It makes little sense why women would compete over who looks good, but not compete over education or work achievements. By valuing appearance more than other attributes, the only message that is given off is that women are only there to be pretty.
“We hurt, too. We want to be told nice things, too.”
The rise of gender-neutral toilets is a concerted effort to provide transgender and non-binary individuals with a more comfortable and safe experience when going to the toilet. With many facing the choice of “which bathroom am I less likely to be harassed in?” the approach seems both logical and sensible. However the debate from both sides, and everywhere in-between, has led to controversy both outside and within the trans community.
We’ve all played those games and it’s the reason we’re now in this sorry situation. A lot of fuckboy situations happen because two people were unable to voice their needs and desire and so everyone just went along with it instead.
“Society in general doesn’t give a fuck about men’s problems at all, not even a little.”
“Boys make excuses. Men take responsibility.”
At the end of the day, it’s about being loving and respectful and being all they are called to be in a world that so desperately needs some light.
I want my current partner a lot, and I want other people sometimes in the abstract, but I’m still asexual.
To say Olivia Gatwood is a powerhouse of a poet still somehow feels like an undersell.
You can make a difference within your community.