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Congratulations to skinny boys and men who are generally accepted as attractive!

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How can something be so fun and so heartbreaking all at once?

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I finally came to my own conclusion, my own acceptance: That if being gay was the “worst” thing I could do in life, then I fully surrender to proudly owning my sexuality.

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What kind of community can you build when you only notice or pay attention to half of it?

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So what’s the problem with Grindr? Why does every guy I’ve talked to have a love/hate relationship with a simple app? Why is there a stigma automatically attached to anyone who has that little orange icon on their phone? Why have we started slut-shaming our friends and ourselves?

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By now the gay “sensibility” (if there is such an animal) is firmly entrenched in heterosexual culture. New York is a gay city, much the same way that it is (or was) a Jewish city.

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Being gay means accepting that, one day, you could be left behind by the ones you love. Let me explain. When you’re in your twenties, your straight girlfriends are practically your other half.

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It is that time of year again!

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It was a photography project that consumed most of his life, at least for 365 days.

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I’m a fit, masculine, relatively good-looking white top, 5 foot 10 inches, blue eyes, short hair.