Congratulations to skinny boys and men who are generally accepted as attractive!
How can something be so fun and so heartbreaking all at once?
I finally came to my own conclusion, my own acceptance: That if being gay was the “worst” thing I could do in life, then I fully surrender to proudly owning my sexuality.
So what’s the problem with Grindr? Why does every guy I’ve talked to have a love/hate relationship with a simple app? Why is there a stigma automatically attached to anyone who has that little orange icon on their phone? Why have we started slut-shaming our friends and ourselves?
By now the gay “sensibility” (if there is such an animal) is firmly entrenched in heterosexual culture. New York is a gay city, much the same way that it is (or was) a Jewish city.
It was a photography project that consumed most of his life, at least for 365 days.
I’m a fit, masculine, relatively good-looking white top, 5 foot 10 inches, blue eyes, short hair.