It is possible to be the girl who’s independent, and still depend on the guy she loves. It is possible to be the woman who’s strong, and even stronger with her man by her side.
Fiercely Independent Girls
Let her bloom.
She’s tentative about falling, nervous about giving her heart away. A heart that’s been so well taken care of, so protected and safe.
They become brainwashed by people who advise that they will “lose themselves” in some capacity if they have a partner, or start building a family.
When you love a girl that’s fiercely independent, you learn that you can love her without changing her, but you still show her how wonderful it can be to be taken care of. And you learn that a woman’s strength does not, in any way lessen yours.
Girls who remain single for long periods of time have had time to focus on themselves.
She associates commitment with attachment, and attachment means loss.
A girl who has been hurt loves harder than any girl you have ever known.
The crazy girl is insanely passionate and doesn’t love by half-measures. Wether it’s a project, a subject, a place or the people in her tribe, if she loves something she loves it silly, throwing herself into it head-first.
I am already in a committed relationship with wanderlust.