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Back in college, my boyfriend needed to watch porn while we did it. I wasn’t too sexually experienced at the time, assumed it was somewhat normal, but was a bit horrified that he was eventually gonna expect me to do what was going on in the videos.

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Once, when I was about seven, I told a play-date, “I have to go punish myself.”

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But when my daughter arrived, things changed quickly. Where my body had felt vibrant and warm, it suddenly felt empty and sagging.

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There’s a tendency to think of us as semi-mythical creatures who only come out at night and who don’t exist in the prosaic humdrum world of everyday life.

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In the stories I had heard and read about, the women used eBay to mail the panties out. But I figured, why not cut out the shipping cost and just give them to the guy?

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I stayed with an Internet “camwhore” and wrote about it.

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This wasn’t something I chose or wanted. I just had it.

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Sometimes “Ben” slouches in his desk. Could he be more sexy?

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I love eating very caloric, rich foods and I practically squeal with glee if I see the numbers on the scale climb. I like being called piggy, requested to oink and being accused of being gluttonous and lazy.

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“Some like to be humiliated and then have pictures of them doing these tasks posted online.”