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Why do exes always come back, especially when you’re finally healing from the pain they brought you?

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Gemini: You enjoy new experiences and desire to stay connected to old ones. You don’t have much of an issue separating your romantic past from a potential new friendship. 

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You might not miss them specifically. You might wish someone, anyone, was around to keep you company. 

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Now, dating them might feel like a mistake, but back then, turning them down would’ve felt like a mistake. 

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Regardless of how the relationship ended, thinking about your ex with someone else will always hurt at first.

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You don’t have to jump into a new relationship right away but start putting yourself out there again. Harmlessly flirt. Play around. Show yourself that the person you left behind isn’t the only person in the world.

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Unfortunately, most exes are unable to remain friends. There is too much history. Too much drama. Too much unresolved heartache.

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We do whatever it takes to hold on to them, but no matter how much you cling, beg or plead, it won’t make them come back.