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LIBRA: You feel like you should be over your ex by now because you haven’t even seen them in forever.

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Sometimes, the person you couldn’t imagine living life without is going to walk away without a glance back. Sometimes, you’re going to experience a hard switch from talking every single day to never speaking again. 

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Harboring resentment and hurt after our relationship ended did nothing to move my life forward. It didn’t help me heal sooner or forget him more.

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He keeps coming up with more and more reasons to avoid making your relationship official. Maybe he really isn’t ready for a relationship right now because his heart is broken and he’s trying to heal. Or maybe he doesn’t want to make you his official girlfriend in case his ex wants to get back together again. Maybe he’s trying to stay available for her. 

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You never let me creep too close. You shut down around me. You made sure the only vulnerable one in the room was me. 

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GEMINI: You like pictures of him and his new girlfriend in order to create the illusion you couldn’t care less about him moving on. 

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Before you text him back, decide whether you really want to reopen old wounds. Decide whether you really want to risk getting your heart broken by him again.

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ARIES: He’s the ex who hits you up whenever he’s drunk, lonely, or high.

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How they discuss their last breakup can be a window of insight into their readiness to invest in you. 

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Maybe one day, you can add him back. Maybe one day, you can be friends again. But not right now. Right now, you need to keep your distance from him. You need to look out for yourself.