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The definition of insanity often goes both ways. The delusional party and the enabling party. I soon slashed it down to a party of one just for you. 

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Sometimes you have to choose yourself over the vows and promises of “I do.”

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Their divorce taught me marriage isn’t something to take lightly, it isn’t something to rush into, it isn’t simply a milestone to check off your list.

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“She was kidnapped in Mexico and he refused to pay ransom.”

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Even if their arguments were about you, they weren’t because of you. You didn’t do anything wrong. Their inability to communicate and cooperate isn’t your problem. 

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I went to a wedding where the bride got drunk and the groom picked up her phone and saw that she was sexting a coworker during the entire wedding… He told the officiant to not file the paperwork. Great reception though.

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You can’t change another person. You can’t force them into breaking bad habits. If they aren’t interested in changing, then it will never happen, no matter how much you encourage them, no matter how much you love them.

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In my friend’s vows he was talking about her eyes which were blue and he called them green. 

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It takes a woman secure with herself and her relationship to understand that you will always come second, and if he is a good father, this will be true.

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A chance at real love. Someone who actually values you.