“It is not the number of positive experiences that dictate our enjoyment of life. It is the intensity with which we pay attention to them that matters.”
A growth-based decision becomes the story of your life later. A fear-based decision turns into regret.
When I am asked if I will ever have children of my own, my response has gone from a timid “don’t judge me” reply, to simply saying no. Sometimes just one word is the biggest truth we can ever tell.
“Only dating someone if they were interested in finding someone to settle down with. Not that dating for fun is wrong, but it’s not what I wanted, so why waste my time with people who didn’t want what I want?”
I don’t know why more people don’t do this. But I can tell you how to save millions of dollars. Just two simple decisions.
Things become clockwork. We reach for our phone first thing in the morning or incessantly check social media throughout the day because, well, that’s what we always do. These are habits.
Sometimes all girls want is for men to make decisions. Prove that they put a little thought into it. Keep their word and follow through. And it doesn’t have to be gestures over the top.
It’s a dangerous mindset to be made part of. And it’s everywhere.
Quit your old life, make the trip, and trust the process.
It’s the beginning of a new life that you’re not in. It’s the beginning of me not choosing you.