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Dear Straight Dude: I’m a Gay Dude in Love With a Straight Boy

Dear Straight Dude: I’m a Gay Dude in Love With a Straight Boy

Avatar Brandon Gorrell

What’s it like for a straight dude who has a gay friend that’s in love with him? As a gay man in Texas (not a ton of homos down here), I’ve fallen in love with two straight guys. It was embarrassing, awkward and just downright weird for me. I couldn’t help myself around him. I flirted unconsciously, touched his arms and chest way more than I should have and wanted to be around him even when I was the third wheel.

Dear Gay Dude: Should I Break Up With My BF?

Dear Gay Dude: Should I Break Up With My BF?

Avatar Ryan O'Connell

Here’s the gist: 20-year-old gay boy falls in love with a 28-year-old. Three months into the relationship, the 28-year-old’s mom died and he goes sort of crazy. After a few years, they break up. 20-year-old becomes single but disenchanted with the gay scene. Runs back into the arms of his BF (who was admitted to a psychiatric facility once they broke up…) and is wondering if he is making a mistake by getting back together with him.