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I was in my late twenties, so I had a business, but nobody knew who I was at the time. I was headed to the Virgin Islands and I had a very pretty girl waiting for me, so I was, umm, determined to get there on time.

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Realize they are hurting you, and you’re not even sure how that’s possible. You’ll just feel flashes of pain and bruising, and be totally confused as to why. Think about that Culture Club song, ‘Do You Really Want To Hurt Me?”, and feel a desire to sing it to them while they’re having sex with you.