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We think we have to be women and men who are tough on the outside and soft on the inside, who act one way but think another. We believe this makes us attractive, to be complicated. Makes us worth the chase, worth the discovery of what’s beneath the layers. But maybe we really don’t need the layers at all.

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Complicated people are defined as those who can’t seem to act or react like the typical norm. They tend to think before they express it, react slower or faster than others, and almost always have a different tone of mood than anyone else in the room.