“The first time my wife and I had sex, she licked me clean afterwards. She hasn’t done it since.”
If you’re dating when you’re not ready for a relationship, make communication the first priority.
She shouldn’t have to fight for your attention, or to be cared for. If you want her in your life, you should make sure she is. You should make her feel like the most beautiful, important woman in the world.
It means that you tell your partner everything. That you never keep any secrets. That you fully let them into your heart.
But, most of all, I have learned that love has no language, and that the quicker humanity understands that, the quicker we will begin to understand each other.
I still have a difficult time expressing how I feel. There are times where I feel disconnected from the world and times where I feel like no one will ever understand me.
When it comes to our dating culture, I think it’s safe to say we all have a lot of questions. But one of them raises itself the most apparent, and it is this: What the actual fuck are we all doing?
The human brain has what I would call a safe source filter. That means if someone is primarily critical, you quit listening.
We want it to be all about us and us alone. If you’re not with us, you’re against us.
Breaking the cycle of an unhappy relationship dynamic requires a radical shift in mindset.