“Physical attraction means I like the way you look, for me to commit I have to like the way you think.”
And I know, I know — it is difficult when every tender part of who you are has been bruised and let down by the ones who never learned how to love you properly. But you must believe in this love the way it believes in you. You must trust it.
The truth is that, while not all men are simple, most men are fairly predictable in the stages they go through when dating a new woman.
I ask questions like, “Should we bet on us?” and am afraid to committing to the future because not many men have committed to me. I’m afraid they will all go —
the track record is more left stories than love stories.
Sex has become normal and not something to value.
Getting a relationship you want comes down to the confidence you have in yourself.
She doesn’t want to hear excuses about how you really like her and could imagine dating her in the future but the timing isn’t right.
Being ambitious isn’t enough. Far more important than ambition is commitment.
After all, nothing’s scarier than commitment!
Be sure that you fully understand your own worth. There’s a reason why the best negotiation tactic in the world is walking away from the table. In this case, it’s not so much about negotiating as it is about helping him realize that you’re with him only because you choose to be.