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We’re not the tone of our skin, a summary of our thoughts, or our shoe size. None of us should be classified as belonging to just one organization, or just one social media group, no matter how many Snapchats we post a day.

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I got up and decided to stop complaining and start problem solving.

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Are you going to have a joint account and put all your money into it? Are you going to have separate accounts and split things down the middle? Are you going to do some mixture of the two?

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Your Facebook feed is full of weddings and babies and you don’t actually mind anymore.