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The way you think doesn’t only affect you and your self-esteem, it can have a big impact on the people around you. 

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Every detour, roadblock, and crossroads that you will encounter will bring you one step closer to where you’re meant to end up.

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Think about it this way: if you’re the “funny single girl” whose punch line is always about how you’re in a relationship with wine, you’re receiving affirmation for it, and it’s going to make you much less inclined to actually try to find the right relationship.

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Whether you should change to attract ‘The One’ depends on whether you’re living what you deem to be your best life.

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I could start wearing more conservative clothes and lose some weight. These ten pounds I’ve gained while dating you are what’s coming between us. It’s totally fair. It was like false advertising. You got into a relationship with someone who’s thin and now I’m not so thin. How rude of me! You’re still fit and tan and sexy. I mean, I would love you still even if you weren’t, but I understand why you wouldn’t feel the same way. I’ll lose the weight and you’ll love me more. That’s final.