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Whatever you and your fiancé decide to do for your special day just make sure it’s your decision and try not to get caught up in all of the “should’s” of wedding planning.

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Many have told me I am selfish. That I should do it “for the kids” or to “save face.” But I am not swayed. Why should I give up my name and take yours? I have yet to get an answer aside from, “just because.” But you didn’t fall in love with a “just because” woman.

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With all the progressive ideas turning into reality, one common tradition seems to be at a staggering halt. A lot of women don’t want to get married. Not even Oprah. Why?