It was always you who felt apologetic somehow: for wearing that shirt, for playing that game, for liking this thing, for just being you. But none of that is important.
The thought of having aa boyfriend instead of a girlfriend to make my life easier never leaves my mind because of the practicality but nonetheless, I am with her right now.
I’m pretty certain that men and women are both hot. Nothing confusing about that.
There is a common misconception that your sexual orientation is determined by the relationships you have had. This is not true. You can be bisexual even if you have only ever dated members of the opposite sex, or if you have only dated members of the same sex.
I have this dream where I don’t have to keep coming out over and over. Where people don’t think my sexuality is a phase unless I can produce a girlfriend on command. Where people stop asking me who fucks better: men or women.
Sexuality doesn’t have to be an either-or scenario. I am neither straight nor gay, regardless of who I am dating. Label me what you will, but I’m just Danielle.
I was in the closet for too long I was almost sure I was in Narnia already (and the closet is suffocating).
Attraction is attraction, and you’re allowed to feel the way you do. There is no need for you to justify it, explain it to anyone else, or chastise yourself for feeling what you feel.
“Have you like…ever thought about hooking up with anyone from the office?”
“Two words: oral sex. Love to give it, love to get it. And it’s completely different depending on who I’m with.”