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When I asked Sean why he hadn’t had any contact with me for five years, he said that his lover Doug was extremely jealous of me because Sean had been seeing us both at the same time. Sean was calling from the Jupiter Holiday Inn, where he was attending a conference of software users for his firm. He said it was his 23rd birthday.

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I’ve only been a ghostee once in my life, and it sucked a lot.

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Meanwhile, the next day I’m in Chicago and I can tell he’s different, because like INTUITION.

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You are in dating purgatory, and you’re about to be ghosted.

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“I honestly didn’t think it would be a big deal. I mean, everyone ghosts. I figured if I didn’t respond to her a few times, she would get the hint and move on.”

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The days went by and the conversations we used to have about everything became one way conversations between me and your one word responses.

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So you’ve gotten ghosted a bunch of times. Who hasn’t though? This is just a part of dating, unfortunately. You have two options, deal with it some more until you find the right person to be with or don’t date at all.

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Maybe the answer is not what you were really hoping for, but at the end of the day, it helps you let go of the past and focus on the future.

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Virgo: You exposed your weird side too soon. 

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There comes a point where you just want to escape from the plethora of scenarios running through your head and hear a fucking answer — any answer — from them. Then you realize that answer is never going to come.