When loneliness becomes your friend, you don’t know if it’s a blessing or a curse. You know that it’s better than hating it because it seems like a constant in your life, it seems like it’s here to stay but you also wonder if this comfort is stopping you from seeing what’s out of there, from being part of the world and from living.
Being single is not a death sentence. It’s not some incurable disease that deems you unlovable or unable to thrive and find enormous amounts of joy.
I just didn’t know who I was when I was alone and I felt like I needed someone there to guide me. But then I started taking all the energy I put into trying to get other people to love me into myself and my entire world changed.
There would be days when I would hate you for not being able to make everything better, even while knowing that it is not humanely possible for you to do so.
Bianca Sparacino: You’re currently a lot more concerned with figuring out who you are as a person than you are with figuring out who your forever person will be.
It REALLY sucks when you get “ghosted” on. While you might never know the exact reason why, maybe this astrology-based guide will give you a clue.
In moments of loneliness, I’ve cried my heart out, but my capacity for emotional strength increased tenfold.
Your relationship status is not a reflection on how lovable, worthy, and amazing you are.
It’s one of those days when your strength becomes a liability rather than an asset. It’s one of those days when you question how long you will have to count on your strength without having someone else to lean on or how much longer you can really make it on your own.
Loneliness is ugly and it’s dark and it’s alienating.