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I realized the waiting period for us single men and women should not be seen as a struggle, but more like a gift from God.

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Do not wait around. It is not worth it. You could have learned to paint, to write poetry, learned a new language. Drive. Travel. Save your money to travel. Read one hundred books a year. Volunteer. Depending on your interest. Not because you want to meet someone, but because these things give you meaning.

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I hope you don’t consider your relationship fall outs as a way for you to close your doors to the possibility of falling in love again. Because your failures don’t define you, and your heartache won’t kill you.