The only person who can control me is myself – asking that of anybody else is an impossible task. It would grind any person to dust.
1. Seeing who will fight for you.
“It is not the number of positive experiences that dictate our enjoyment of life. It is the intensity with which we pay attention to them that matters.”
Many people believe that thinking about what they want will give them control over getting what they want. However, their intent to control is lowering their frequency and preventing the manifestation.
There isn’t a person in the world who loves harder or loves deeper than them.
Full-fledged psychopaths appear to be rarer than your garden-variety narcissist, but there are narcissists who possess psychopathic traits. These are what we would call “almost psychopaths,” those who may blend more easily into society, but still chronically violate the rights of others.
Whatever you focus on, your brain scans for. So if you’re thinking positively (or negatively), guess what your brain starts scanning for and seeing?
Give yourself a chance to be happy.
You always stay up past midnight — even though you keep promising yourself you’ll get to bed early.
If a friend takes too long to answer a text, you think they hate you.