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Ugh. Look at so-and-so over there. He’s so into himself. That shirt is so ugly, and his hair is like, way too nicely cut. I hate his piercing blue eyes too. I hate him. But I would totally have sex with him. Sound familiar?

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The truth is, we don’t learn about sex in one fell swoop. Our attitudes, desires, behaviors and responses to sex are often a hodgepodge of multiple influences collaged together over time.