No Contact is the key that locks out that person from ever entering our heart, mind, and spirit in any palpable way again.
You feared putting yourself out there. You feared the risk of a broken heart.
Suddenly I became a person again, a real person with value and worth who deserved to be treated like a queen.
Sometimes, we focus on saving others in order to distract ourselves from our own growth.
“I left when I woke up with her hands around my throat.”
My list of excuses was impressive, and used often. The excuses ranged from ‘he suffers from severe anxiety to ‘this is his first relationship so he doesn’t really know how it works.’
We men have been conditioned socially to believe that any number of small, meaningless cues from women are in fact meaningful, and that we have some intrinsic entitlement moving forward to pursue women because of it.
Texting girls and not wanting your girlfriend to know about it is cheating. Cheating means doing something you wouldn’t want your significant other to know.
If you’ve ever asked yourself if you’re the one who’s a narcissist, you may want to read this.