Waiting for a magical moment or destiny or for things to just serendipitously fall into place is a lazy way of saying, “I don’t feel like making this work or happen myself.”
So what if we fail? So what if we didn’t achieve the results we want? At least we’ll have learned something in the process.
So, I’m 23 and I still haven’t had sex.
A mature person shifts their locus of control inside. They take responsibility for their actions and the resulting consequences. They don’t blame other people and own their shortcomings.
Embrace your fears, look forward to failure.
Having failures is part of your learning process and it doesn’t mean that you’re going backwards; it only means that you grow to be better.
When problems show up in your life, you don’t panic; instead, you think.