(March 21st to April 19th)
Stay away from the guy who insists (outright or subtly) that you adjust yourself and fold yourself into his life, instead of being of the mindset that you can have two, separate, fulfilling lives and still be in a strong relationship together.
(April 20th to May 21st)
Stay away from the guy who causes you constant pain and insecurity instead of causing you joy. You need to be with a man who only makes you feel more confident and loved than you already do, instead of being with a man who makes you feel jealous, inadequate, and self-conscious.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
Stay away from the guy who wants you to mold yourself into his idea of the perfect girlfriend instead of accepting you for all sides of you – the fun, exciting one, and the vulnerable, anxious one, and everything in between.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
Stay away from the guy who sees your heart as something he can take for granted, instead of seeing your big heart as the most incredible thing about you and the reason that he wants to spend the rest of his life loving you and taking care of you.
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
Stay away from the guy who doesn’t encourage your growth – the guy who’s intimidated by and afraid of your creativity and motivation, instead of being inspired by you and proud of you.
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
Stay away from the guy who wants you to swallow your anxieties and worries instead of dealing with them – the guy who’s so unsteady and scared himself that he doesn’t feel capable of being in a relationship in which the two of you tackle one another’s struggles like the team that you should be.
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
Stay away from the guy who is only comfortable being with you if you make yourself smaller for him – the guy who can’t handle your charisma, your magnetism, and your charm, and instead wants you to shrink every aspect of who you are in order to make him feel comfortable and important.
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
Stay away from the guy who cannot handle your drive and ambition – the guy who is afraid of how high you want to go instead of being ready to hold your hand and cheer you on every step of the way.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
Stay away from the guy who only wants you when things are happy and easy – the guy who easily falls in love with your positive, optimistic, free-spirit side but doesn’t know how to be there for you when things are hard and when you can’t be as bright and as light as usual.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
Stay away from the guy who never makes you laugh and never makes you take a breath of relief – the guy who only adds seriousness and somberness to your life instead of bringing you a much-needed dose of silliness, relaxation, and joy.
(January 21st to February 18th)
Stay away from the guy who doesn’t make your heart feel safe – the guy who makes it even more difficult than usual for you to open up, instead of being the guy who you trust so much that you’re willing to risk your heart a little bit more every day.
(February 19th to March 20th)
Stay away from the guy who never challenges you to go a little bit further or to challenge yourself a little bit more – the guy who’s happy to keep things the way they are forever and to never take any risks, because he’d rather be safe and secure instead of experiencing any adventure whatsoever.