Some women just aren’t in the fucking mood to deal with men anymore.
Don’t be surprised if it takes several hours before people start getting naked or having sex. The first few hours of a party are for mingling and flirting.
I like to use butt plugs because you can buy a few different sizes and work your way up to one that is about the same girth as your member.
I learned a lot that day about giving blowjobs and how incredibly awkward they can be. More work then going down on a woman. More comfortable on the neck, that’s for sure.
It’s so basic and so obvious that when you do it with a smile, it comes off as playful. And it’s all about being open, honest, and playful.
Pay attention. Look at her face. Look at her chest. Pay attention to her breathing. Listen to her moaning. Notice how she moves her body.
A nice guy is the bare minimum and most women want more than the bare minimum. Much more.