Shahida Arabi
Shahida is a graduate of Harvard University and Columbia University. She is a published researcher and author of Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse and Breaking Trauma Bonds with Narcissists and Psychopaths. Her books have been translated into 16+ languages all over the world. For more inspiration and insight on manipulation and red flags, follow her on Instagram here.
An Expert Reveals the 6 Stages of Trauma Bonding with Narcissists
As a researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy, I have noticed there are six common stages of trauma bonding that survivors of narcissists often go through before they become sufficiently “hooked” into the toxic relationship cycle.
Why So Many Men Are Threatened By Smart and Successful Women in the Dating World – According to Research
Studies reveal that smart and successful women trigger a man’s ego – but why?
23 Things Only People Who Were Raised By Narcissistic Parents Will Understand
To you, dangerous people feel like home. You “thrive” in fantasy relationships because you feel safe with people you know you have no future with. You fear abandonment yet abandon yourself.
Stole Your Man or Woman: Mate Poaching is Related To Psychopathic Traits, Research Finds
Mate poaching or partner poaching is when someone deliberately and knowingly pursues those who are already in a committed romantic relationship. It is associated with darker personality traits. We’ve all heard the phrase, “A real man (or woman) can never be stolen.” While that may be true, that doesn’t mean partner poachers won’t try regardless of whether or not their intended target reciprocates.
4 Trauma Responses That Double As Superpowers
As a researcher specializing in trauma, I find that survivors of trauma often identify both the positive and maladaptive elements of their trauma responses while still validating the pain they experienced.
A Researcher Reveals the Early Warning Signs of Narcissistic and Psychopathic Children
Although neither narcissism or psychopathy can be diagnosed in children, research shows there are often early warning signs that point to harmful behaviors and traits that can persist into adulthood.
Law and Order: SVU’s Best ‘Psychopaths and Narcissists’ Episodes
Law and Order: Special Victims Unit is one of the most captivating crime drama television shows, spanning an impressive 24 seasons.
How to Reparent Yourself If You’re The Child of a Narcissistic Parent
Children of narcissistic parents can suffer long-lasting effects in adulthood that affect their self-esteem, mental health, their susceptibility to re-traumatization, and emotional regulation.