Sex Coach Reveals 6 Ways To Give Your Man The Best Hand Job He Has Ever Had

Flickr / Luke
Flickr / Luke

There is a right way and a wrong way to go about giving your man a great hand job. I want to show you the right way to give your man some hand lovin’.

Thankfully, it’s not rocket science. Concentrate on just getting a few of the following things right, and your man will be in heaven when you put your hands down there.

1. Hand Job Foreplay

Rather than just grabbing his penis and giving him a hand job as fast as you can, you’ll find that it’s way hotter to slowly build up to it with what I like to call “Hand Job Foreplay.”

Start by just kissing him like you normally would. While kissing him, slowly lower your hand towards his crotch outside his clothes. Slowly brush past his crotch and start to softly rub the inside of his thigh. After doing this for about a minute, slowly move your hand over his groin area (while still outside his clothes) and start to gently grab and massage his penis.
At this stage, you should hear him starting to groan and sigh.

Now, it’s time to slowly unbutton his trousers and slip your hand inside his briefs to slowly grab hold of his member. But there’s no need to speed up just yet. Do everything very slowly and sensually so that you give your man time to enjoy each and every one of your touches.

If you are not getting too caught up in the heat of the moment, then you can make this hand job foreplay last for up to 10 minutes.

2. The Two-Hander

Many girls never properly learn how to give a good hand job to their man. As a result, they end up only using one technique. This is what I call “The Claw,” where you simply grab him and keep tugging it up and down, non-stop, at the same speed until he orgasms without ever changing your grip.

This is not absolutely terrible, but it is quite boring (and often very tiring).

A very easy way to change things up when jerking him off is to alternate between using one hand and using two hands on him. When you do this, you’ll be able to stimulate both his shaft and the top of his penis. You’ll also find that he thoroughly enjoys it when you switch between hands while giving him a hand job.

3. Ball Sports

It goes without saying that your man’s testicles are incredibly sensitive. In fact, they are the last place your man ever wants to get hit. The good thing is that you can exploit this sensitivity when giving him a hand job.

Midway through your hand job, give your hand a rest and slowly slide your fingers down towards his testicles. Now, start to slowly and softly fondle them between your fingers. You can also cup them in your hand and gently squeeze them.

As you move back up towards his penis, use your nails to scratch his testicles, but make sure to do so with a minimal amount of pressure.

4. The Tippy-Top

The most sensitive part of your man’s penis is … the top! It’s where you’ll find the highest concentration of nerve endings on his entire body. So, giving the top of his penis lots of attention is a high priority.

The easiest way to focus your hand job on the top of his penis is to make an “O” shape with your index finger and thumb and put it over his penis. Then just slowly move it up and down about an inch or so. You really don’t need to move it that much, just enough to stimulate the top.

5. Frenulum You Say?

For a lot of guys, another highly sensitive part is a tiny patch called the frenulum. The frenulum is on the underside of his member. It is the piece of flesh that joins with the shaft on the underside. Just lightly running one finger over the frenulum is incredibly stimulating for your man.

The best way to rub his frenulum is to take a break from using one of my other hand job techniques on his shaft and just spend 20-30 seconds rubbing his frenulum with a minimum amount of pressure before switching back.

6. Softly, Softly

When you first start learning how to give your man a hand job, you may feel like speeding up as he starts to orgasm and shoot his load everywhere. The funny thing is that he will prefer it if you actually slow down and release the pressure as he is reaching orgasm.

You see, when he reaches orgasm, he will become incredibly sensitive to touch to the point where it actually feels painful for him when you touch it. TC mark

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