Yeah, he’s hot, but is he a good person?
It sets you up for disappointment because achieving “good vibes only” means abandoning the truth of your own soul —where there are not just good vibes, but all kinds of vibes present.
Giving yourself the feeling of being special or deserving or loved comes only from you first.
When we feel we are of use to something greater than ourselves we can access a deeper understanding of happiness.
Your worth is never predetermined —you determine it, and once you do the world responds.