I stopped worrying about who to be or who will love me or why things happen. I started to just let things be, let things happen, or not.
Now, I go out and I am so ME, I don’t know who I ever was trying to be before. I’m not the girl at the party that is going to sit quietly and keep you company in a corner. I am going to dance, with or without you. I’m not the perfect, none of us are.
You have the freedom and care-free attitude to do whatever YOU want.
In relationships, it’s normal after time to not always feel sparks or get butterflies…but don’t stop trying. Just because you’ve been dating for X amount of years, doesn’t mean it’s not constantly something to work on.
I find that I run into each of these “special” individuals every time I go out to a club or bar.