Instead Of Fighting For Someone To Stay In Your Life, Let Them Leave
The art of letting go.
The art of letting go.
The less invested you seem in a person, the more likely you are to “win” – whatever that means. If you adopt this attitude, your first problem is viewing relationships as a form of competition, but, as a product of society, sometimes that can’t be helped.
I want her to be unapologetic and sure of herself in a world that so often fills us with self-doubt. I’ll tell her never to shrink herself to fit someone else’s idea of perfect. I’ll stress that her value does not decrease based on someone’s inability to see it.