Obviously living in that negative sort of mind set isn’t really living, but how do I change it? How do I grow past just being a survivor of tragedy and pain? How do I live a life that fills my emotional bank account instead of constantly emptying it?
Of course, I can’t speak for all service members and their spouses, but I think most of us would say that we understand that you don’t understand. How could you? We get it. It’s ok.