7 Reasons Dating A Crazy Girl Is Better Than Dating A “Normal” One

Silver Linings Playbook
Silver Linings Playbook

1. There’s rarely a dull moment.

Crazy girls act on any urge to do wild, irrational things, which often leads to the relationship being spontaneous and fun. You’ll do things like trespass for an unplanned adventure, you’ll have impromptu sex in random locations, you’ll get your adrenaline fix on plenty of occasions.

Also, crazy girls don’t play those ‘Guess Why I’m Mad At You’ shenanigans. You’ll never be a contestant on the miserable game show that is figuring out why your girlfriend is being short and looks like the frown-faced emoji. This can be good and bad, because spats are usually pretty intense. I’m not condoning or praising anything as extreme as verbal abuse, however, it can be refreshing to not have to dig to find out why you’re in the dog house.

2. Sometimes it’s a good feeling to see someone so worked up & passionate over little old you.

Aww, she tried to hack my Facebook so many times that her incorrect password guesses got my account locked, because she cares that much about me? She’s writing out essay-length text messages at 4am because she cares that much about me? She’s coming in like a wrecking ball because she cares that much about me? How unconventionally romantic!

3. On the contrary, it’s satisfying to prove someone wrong, and surely you’ll have an opportunity to.

Crazy people hastily jump to conclusions and often assume the worst in relationships. She’ll see you secretly writing out text messages in a corner and snap, scolding your suspicious behavior until you reveal that you were making surprise plans for your anniversary. What’s more pleasurable than shutting down all of the jumping on a conclusion trampoline that your crazy significant will inevitably do?

4. The sex is crazy.

Crazy in the best way possible. Never has a crazy girl been a humdrum starfish in the bedroom.

5. You get called out on your BS.

Sometimes you need someone to bluntly (perhaps borderline aggressively) let you know when you’re full of sh-t, and a crazy girlfriend will have no qualms with doing that. However, this is only beneficial if you’re not a delusional person who thinks they can do no wrong, so be wary of any flawless pedestals you place yourself on.

6. It’s a good way to gauge what you can and can’t handle, patience-wise.

You might learn that you’re okay with being asked why that girl liked your photo on Instagram, but you’re not alright with her messaging aforementioned girl to tell her to stay away from you. The typical crazy girl will be overprotective, so you’ll find out real quick if you like being safeguarded like a lioness would her baby cub, or if you prefer the carefree, long-leash type. (Don’t take this personally by the way, crazy girls may trust you, but not trust other people, and rightfully so, there are plenty of relentless relationship saboteurs out there.)

7. We’re all crazy inside anyway, she just doesn’t hide it.

This means you’re dating an incredibly real, authentic person instead of some psycho trying to masquerade as a sane individual. There’s definitely an odd sense of comfort in that, enjoy it. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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