25 Heartbreakingly Honest Reasons Why We Broke Up

1.

I wasn’t in love with you.

2.

There was no spark between us.

3.

All I saw was me in the future…you weren’t by my side anymore.

4.

I know you saw us living together, marriage, and more…I couldn’t see that and it scared me to death.

5.

You weren’t the first thing I thought about when I woke up in the morning or went to bed at night.

6.

You were no longer the person I wanted to share every little detail about my day with.

7.

Instead I felt like I was now obligated to share with you as if I was reporting to my mom or teacher.

8.

I didn’t want to have sex with you.

9.

I kept fantasizing about girls and being with a girl.

10.

You’re not a girl.

11.

Every time you came to visit me, I felt as if I was caged in…I lost all my independence.

12.

I got angry at you when you took over my precious free time and dirtied up my living space.

13.

I always ended up annoyed, angry and anxious when you spent the weekend.

14.

You were so fucking indecisive…just make up your mind…for once make a decision.

15.

I felt like I was always waiting on you and dragging you around.

16.

I started scheduling work and events on the weekend to use an excuse not to see you.

17.

Our lifestyles were completely different.

18.

You didn’t have that drive, passion, and ambition that I see every day in myself.

19.

You didn’t believe in yourself most of the time.

20.

You weren’t challenging me or facilitating my growth.

21.

I had all the power in the relationship and could manipulate you in any way.

22.

I was bored with you.

23.

You were satisfied with the way things were and I needed change and adventure.

24.

I kept putting myself first…us was no longer my priority in my mind.

25.

I was more scared about hurting our friends and family by breaking up with you than hurting you.