You go to her when you’re excited, because she’ll make a bigger deal out of the situation then needs to be.
“Are all organic chemistry professors spawn of the devil?”
Her friends will tell her how beautiful she is and she’ll smile and say “Thanks!” but she won’t believe them. “They probably just want to make me feel good,” she’ll think to herself.
If people come to you for advice or to talk to, be honored. This is a time in people’s lives where they’re careful and cautious about who they trust. If you’re that someone, embrace it.
A break up, without a relationship.