5 Definite Signs He’s NOT Husband Material

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Sometimes we find ourselves in a relationship that just doesn’t feel completely right, but we are stuck in it just because we think that what we’re feeling is love. Well, maybe would be better to take a step back and to face that our “other half” is not right for us!

And there are some clean signs that help us to understand that our boyfriend might not be the Right One…

1. He seems ashamed of you

Basically, when you’re in public, he seems a complete different person. He doesn’t want to introduce you to his friends and family and he’s always embarrassed when someone sees you hanging out. He never wants to hold your hand or do demonstrate some kind of affection in public: if he’s not shy, he probably isn’t the right one for you.

2. He’s not respectful

If he’s rude and vulgar with you, if he fights a lot, if he doesn’t treat you right…well, he’s not #husbandmaterial. Respect always comes first in a relationship: no one has the right to treat you bad or to make you feel like you’re the wrong one!

3. There’s no physical attraction and chemistry

Simple and easy: even if he seems the right one for his sweetness, intelligence and kindness, if there’s no chemistry between you two, your story is not supposed to last. Aka: he’s not Mr. Right.

4. He has different values

If you don’t share same values about life, family, and love, how it would be possible to create a family? It’s ok to disagree sometimes…but not about important stuff that you might like to teach your children.

5. He tells lies

The worst category: the liars! If you are with someone who constantly tells lies about little or big things, he’s not right for you! Honesty is always the point when it comes to long-lasting relationships! TC mark

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This is me letting you go

If there’s one thing we all need to stop doing, it’s waiting around for someone else to show up and change our lives. Just be the person you’ve been waiting for.

At the end of the day, you have two choices in love – one is to accept someone just as they are and the other is to walk away.

We owe it to ourselves to live the greatest life that we’re capable of living, even if that means that we have to be alone for a very long time.

“Everyone could use a book like this at some point in their life.” – Heather
Let go now

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