You have to just accept him for what he was when he was with you and be resolute in understanding that he isn’t for you.
Why does love for women have to be synonymous with “I’ll cross the ocean for you, even though I don’t know how to swim”? I’m not crossing it for you, Lance; I’m not drowning for you.
Ladies, you know when a man is being inconsistent, when he’s not invested, when he’s doing his own thing. You know what else? He knows too.
Here’s the first thing everyone needs to understand before we proceed: Women are individuals, not male accessories. We do not exist solely to gain male approval or for some man to call our own.
All these professions, jobs, titles, what have you, they’re just performances. They’re just performances by regular-ass people acting their asses off because they feel like impostors too.