Nikita Gill

Nikita is the author of Your Soul Is A River and Your Heart Is The Sea.

How To Love Someone With Depression

Your partner has just told you they are depressed. And that they are really struggling with it, especially this particular week. You want to be there for them but you don’t know how to.

Here Is How You Will Bury The People That Almost Destroyed You

Take every single person who lessened your shine and bury their memory, without mercy under glow of everything that makes you who you are. And who you are right now, in this moment, is a living, breathing example of how you can survive hell and still, still keep shining.

Take Your Time To Heal

You are calling yourself worthless and weak again because you feel like you are taking too long to heal too long to be ‘normal’ again and it makes me ache inside to watch you tear yourself down this way.

Their Hurt is Not Your Decision to Make

Deciding how hurt someone is allowed to be with your behaviour towards them is the emotional equivalent of 1. drowning someone and deciding how loud they are allowed to scream 2.