In 2018, It’s Time To Love Dangerously

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We spend so much time trying to figure everything out when we are dating. We obsess over every little message we send, go crazy trying to analyse every gesture, every word out of the other person’s mouth. We tread so carefully that we forget how to enjoy the relationship itself, instead it becomes a source of stress that leads most relationships to disintegrate faster and for smaller reasons than they are meant to.

In 2018, it is finally time to start loving dangerously. No longer obsessing over the small things. Focussing on the positives of a relationship and actually enjoying it. If a relationship is new and not toxic, why waste your time being suspicious and trying to figure out the toxicity before it has even happened? We spend too much time trying to preempt the other person’s moves instead of just letting things happen naturally.

So, love dangerously. Throw all your hang ups out of the window. Let them see your flaws without being hyper anxious about letting them see the real you. Allow love to happen to you. You deserve to be loved and to give love without worrying about every little thing in your relationship.

You deserve to simply enjoy your life in 2018 instead of getting caught up in the small stuff. You deserve to love large, live large and exist at the highest, most wonderful energy your life can bring you. For that, you need to see people this way: they are temporary. Worrying about them staying or leaving your life if pointless because most people will leave.  So instead of spending your time worrying about something which may be inevitable, why not treat the relationship for what it is. A time to learn and to live with another human who is bringing something new and beautiful new experiences to your life.

In 2018, it is time for you to love dangerously. Put your worrying aside. And just live and let love. TC mark

Nikita Gill

Nikita is the author of Your Soul Is A River, a book about healing and becoming whole again.

Your Soul Is A River

“Love a soft person. The ones who are positive, even in the worst of circumstances. Someone whose strength is not in bravado, but in their quiet. Someone who is strong for others because that is what is needed in that moment. Someone who is the moon that soothes instead of the sun that burns. Someone who sees the very best in people even when you think they aren’t worth it. The kind of person who always wants to do the best for those they love.”
—Excerpt from Your Soul Is A River, by Nikita Gill

“I bought this on a whim to read as I was resting for the night, and I do not regret it one bit! Everything about the poetry in this book is amazing, heart breaking, and soul searching. It will lift your spirits on your darkest days. I want to thank the author so much for writing this, as it’s something I will be rereading a lot! Always remember, everything about you is important. You matter.” —McKayla

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