This Is Why You Won’t Let Him Love You Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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(March 21st to April 19th)

You won’t let him love you because you don’t want to settle down. You like having your freedom and you’re scared that a relationship will ruin that. You’re not afraid of love, you’re afraid of losing your independence.


(April 20th to May 21st)

You won’t let him love you because you’ve been hurt before and you don’t want it to happen again. You hope he’ll be different than the rest of them, but hope isn’t enough for you to really let him in. You won’t let him love you until he proves that he’s nothing like the guy who let you down so badly last time.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

You won’t let him love you because you’re not really sure what you want. You’re filled with uncertainty and you don’t know how to fix it. You’re constantly changing your mind, and you’re not sure if a relationship, let alone love, is something that you’re ready for.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

You won’t let him love you because you’re scared he’s going to leave. You’re intuitive, and when you feel a certain way you’re instinct is usually right, but your intuition sometimes makes you close out the people who are worth letting in. You want to shut him out before he has the chance to leave so that you’re not the one who gets hurt, but sometimes you shut out some great people who had no intention of hurting you at all.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

You won’t let him love you because you don’t want to give up control. You like to be the leader, and sharing your life with someone means sometimes you’ll have to give that leader role up. There’s a balance you haven’t found yet, and when you’re with the right person you will.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

You won’t let him love you because deep down you don’t think you deserve it. You self-sabotage the relationship by pushing him away because you think he’s too good for you. You are way too hard on yourself, and you deserve a person as good as he is. You deserve love and you deserve the wonderful kind of love he gives to you.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

You won’t let him love you because you don’t want to end up like those old couples who fight all of the time and never have sex. You want your relationship to be happy and argument free, and you want it to be that way forever, all of the time. Relationships have their ups and downs. The ups make you feel wonderful and the downs make you feel miserable, but at the end of the day you still love each other. Usually an argument isn’t the reason you fall out of love, so don’t be so afraid of them. Arguments will happen. Your relationship can’t always be rainbows and sunshine.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

You won’t let him love you because you don’t trust him, and it’s not just him, it’s all men. You’ve got some trust issues, and it prevents you from loving people who can actually be trusted. Don’t generalize. Don’t assume he’s cheating just because your ex did, or your friend’s ex did. Base your trust off of actions. If he shows you he’s committed and ready to love you, let him.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

You won’t let him love you because you don’t want to be tied down. You want to explore and travel and feel like you can go anywhere and do anything just because you want to. If you’re in a relationship you feel like you won’t be able to do that. What you need to realize is that real love doesn’t stop you from doing the things you want, it often encourages you to.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

You won’t let him love you because you put love on the back burner. You feel there’s other areas of life that deserve your focus. Sometimes, though, you try to distract yourself from love simply because you’re afraid of it. You’re scared of getting attached or liking someone so much that they’re all you think about. You want to keep your focus, and love throws it off.


(January 21st to February 18th)

You won’t let him love you because you’re terrified of telling him how you really feel. You have difficulty expressing your emotions because you worry about how he’ll respond to them, and whether or not he feels the same. If he truly cares about you he won’t judge your feelings, he’ll just listen to them. Sometimes the scariest part about feelings is sharing them, but when you share them in love you feel accepted, not judged.


(February 19th to March 20th)

You won’t let him love you because you need a connection that’s real, and it takes you some time to figure that out. You’re not looking for someone who’s going to give you a little bit of love and then leave, you’re looking for someone who will accept all the love you have, and who will want to give it back to you. You want real love and it takes you a while to know whether or not he’s willing to give it to you. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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