This Is The Brutally Honest Reason No One Wants To Date You Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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(March 21st to April 19th)

No one wants to date you because you’re so spontaneous, it scares them. They never know what to expect with you, and that’s awesome when they first meet you, but when they’re trying to seriously have a relationship with you, they want you to be consistent and dependable. You’re fun and basically everyone loves having you around, but relationships aren’t always about fun, and everyone who tries to date you knows that.


(April 20th to May 21st)

No one wants to date you because you have materialistic tendencies. You like things to look nice and always be put-together. You want nice furniture in your apartment that costs more than your paycheck and you wouldn’t be caught dead wearing sweat pants in public. You enjoy luxury and convenience and it makes people think you’re high maintenance, too high maintenance for them to date.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

No one wants to date you because you’re all over the place. You’re happy then sad, excited then bored, shy and then outgoing. You are a multi-faceted human and there’s more than just one side to your personality. You can’t make up your mind about much and not even you can predict the kind of person you’re going to be tomorrow. Your ups and downs scare the people who want to settle down with you.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

No one wants to date you because you’re closed-off. Meeting new people scares you. You’re only close to a select group of people, and while those people love you because you’re kind and compassionate, any time someone new tries to break that circle, you’re extremely cautious and skeptical. No one wants to date you because you’re not open to dating someone outside of your inner circle.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

No one wants to date you because you’re always the center of attention. You’re really confident, so confident that you don’t mind when all eyes are on you, but your significant other doesn’t want to live in your shadow. They don’t want to be your arm candy or accessory. They want to be your partner. And when you’re ALWAYS the center of attention, it makes them feel like they’re just in the background. They want to feel special from time to time too.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

No one wants to date you because you overthink. You overthink text messages, conversations, you even overthink the meal you order at dinner. You’re attentive and aware, and you don’t miss a thing, but sometimes you believe the lies your insecurities tell you. You don’t need to think so much, just be.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

No one wants to date you because basically everyone wants to date you. Yes you’re a living oxymoron. You’re usually always taken, and when you are single, you date the first person who comes around and makes you feel special. You’re never available, because you hate to be alone. You’re smart, kind, and personable, and you’re a hot ticket item when you’re on the market. People usually think they have no chance with you.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

No one wants to date you because you have trouble trusting people. You let jealousy get the best of you, especially in relationships. You’d never intentionally hurt someone, but you’re scared your significant other will inevitably hurt you, which is exactly why you’re slow to trust them. People don’t want to constantly prove their loyalty, they just want you to believe them when they say their love is true.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

No one wants to date you because you’re a wanderer. You’re a free-spirit and you go wherever the wind takes you. Not everyone wants unpredictable when it comes to their relationship. They want someone who’s around, and someone who will stay around. Long-distance and uncertainties aren’t for everyone.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

No one wants to date you because your standards are so high, they’re unrealistic. You’re most likely not going to meet someone who has EVERYTHING on your long list of desired qualities in a partner. You have an idealized image of the person you want to be with, and you’re not willing to compromise. It’s fine to have standards, but the person you end up with is often nothing like the person you imagined yourself ending up with. Idealized personas of the person you want to date just aren’t realistic. No one wants to date you because you think you’re going to meet guy who has ABC and XYZ, and you write off the people who don’t while you’re searching for him.


(January 21st to February 18th)

No one wants to date you because they take your introverted personality as a sign of disinterest. You can be shy and quiet, and it’s not because you don’t like someone, it’s just because that’s how you are. You like to spend most of your time alone and it doesn’t mean you want to be single forever, it just means you want someone who understands that, someone who understands you.


(February 19th to March 20th)

No one wants to date you because your charm is almost too good to be true. You’re the person people approach with caution when it comes to dating because you’re so romantic it scares them. You’re artistic and dreamy and you’re the person magazines and internet articles tell you to be wary of. Your romantic side makes people think you’re not going to be around for the long run because no one could possibly maintain that kind of godly behavior for more than 2 months. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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