(March 21st to April 19th)
He doesn’t think your girlfriend material because you love to go out…and stay out. Your idea of fun is not staying in to snuggle under a blanket while watching How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days. You’re spontaneous and you don’t like to stick to one plan. You like to wing it and let life take you wherever it wants, especially if it’s out dancing somewhere that serves affordable cranberry vodkas.
(April 20th to May 21st)
He doesn’t think you’re girlfriend material because you’re kind of high maintenance. You always like to look nice, and you care about appearances. You don’t want him to see you in sweatpants with no makeup, but he wants to see the real you if things are going to get serious.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
He doesn’t think you’re girlfriend material because you’re unpredictable. He’s not quite sure who you really are because it seems like you’re a different person every day. You have a multi-faceted personality, which is not a bad thing, but it scares him because he’s never quite sure what he’s going to get with you.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
He doesn’t think you’re girlfriend material because you put your friends and family first. He loves that you care deeply about the people who are close to you, but he feels like he can’t compete. He thinks he’s either going to be judged by you or them, and he’s worried that judgement will work against him, not for him. The extremely strong bond you have with your friends and family makes him feel inadequate.
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
He doesn’t think you’re girlfriend material because he thinks you’re too into yourself. He admires your confidence, but he sees that you can be a bit self-centered and he worries that all of the attention will be on you and none of it on him. He wants some attention too.
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
He doesn’t think you’re girlfriend material because you overthink your overthinking. You care about the smallest details and you’re extremely conscious of everything you do and say and after you do or say it, you question whether it was right or wrong. He doesn’t judge what you do or say, he accepts it, but he does get annoyed when you constantly question yourself.
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
He doesn’t think you’re girlfriend material because you’ve had TONS of relationships, which you think doesn’t make any sense because it proves you can have one, but it doesn’t prove that you can maintain and keep one. He worries that you’re a serial monogamist and you just date people for the sake of dating them. You don’t like to be single, and he worries that you’ll start a relationship with just anyone, meaning he’s nothing special.
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
He doesn’t think you’re girlfriend material because you get jealous really easily. You worry whether he’s checking out your waitress at dinner, and you question why he’s following that swimsuit model on instagram. He gets tired of reassuring you that you’re the only woman he wants to be with, and that the waitress and swimsuit model are nothing compared to having a relationship with you.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
He doesn’t think you’re girlfriend material because you like to wander. You’ve been to so many places and it doesn’t make you feel content or ready to settle down, it makes you want to go see and do even more. Life is one big exploration for you, and each discovery makes you want to find more. He’s worried that you won’t be able to maintain a relationship along the way.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
He doesn’t think you’re girlfriend material because your schedule is full. You’re a busy woman, and while he admires your focus and responsibility, he wants someone who has time for him too. He doesn’t want to be penciled in. He wants to be somewhere on your priority list that isn’t the bottom. He wants you to be excited to hangout with him, rather than seeing it as one more thing on your to-do list.
(January 21st to February 18th)
He doesn’t think you’re girlfriend material because you’re extremely independent. He knows you don’t need him, but sometimes he wonders if your independence makes you not want him either. You are your own person, and you always will be, and you need someone who understands that. The guy who sees your independence as a threat is not that person.
(February 19th to March 20th)
He doesn’t think you’re girlfriend material because your creativity and artsy-ness make him think you can’t be serious. He admires your talent and passion, but it makes him think you’re not someone who can focus and be with just one person.