The One Thing You Need To Work On To Find Love This Year Based On Your Zodiac

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(March 21st to April 19th)

You need to work on acting on your impulses. Spontaneity is fun, and you’ve got tons of it, but it’s not fun when you’re left feeling guilty or bad about yourself for something you’ve done and can’t take back. If you want to find love this year try to think on something a bit before you act on it.


(April 20th to May 21st)

You need to work on being less superficial. The person you end up falling in love with might not embody all of the expectations you’ve already made for them. They might not be a wealthy doctor or lawyer, or drive an expensive car, but they’ve got a heart full of love, the kind that you deserve, and they’re more than willing to give it to you. Feeling truly loved is better than dating someone because they have a high paying salary or expensive car.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

You need to work on making up your mind. Take a moment for some deep introspection and think about what is you truly want and need, and go for it! Stop accepting love that is less than you deserve simply because you’re not sure that you deserve better. You do deserve better and you shouldn’t settle until you find it.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

You need to work on being open to meeting new people in new ways. You don’t always have to meet someone through a mutual friend. Yes, it’s safe and comfortable to rely on our friends to introduce us to people we’re compatible with and who we could potentially love and who will love us in return, but what if you meet someone on your own? What if you meet someone while simply living your daily life? Don’t shut out the idea of falling in love with someone simply because they haven’t already circulated through your inner circle. Don’t shut love out, be open to letting it in.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

You need to work on listening. When you first start dating someone, it’s fine to talk about yourself, that’s how you get to know each other, but you can’t just talk, you have to hear them too. Falling in love isn’t all about you. Maybe you’re not currently in love or haven’t found it yet because you’re focusing too much on yourself and not enough on whoever you’re dating.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

You need to work on not letting your insecurities get the best of you. Everyone has insecurities, you’re only human, but you can’t allow them to control your relationship or make you think things that just aren’t true. Whenever you’re feeling insecure take a deep breath and try to understand why you’re feeling that way. How are these insecurities making you act towards others and how are they affecting the way you treat yourself? Try to figure out why it is you’re feeling insecure and try to not let it affect your love life. Get your confidence back before you try to love someone.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

You need to work on being more comfortable on your own. You tend to date people to avoid being single, but you can’t have a relationship with someone just because you’re scared to be alone. It’s not fair to them or you. Don’t date someone because it’s convenient or comfortable, date them because you don’t want to know what your life would be like without them.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

You need to work on trust. No matter how betrayed or taken for granted you felt in your last relationship, don’t let your ex ruin it for everyone else you could potentially fall in love with. The person you’re dating now is not your ex, and if you go into the relationship with preconceived notions that they’ll inevitably let you down, they’ll most likely leave before they even get a chance. Don’t let your past distrust someone who hasn’t shown in any way that they should be distrusted.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

You need to work on commitment. You thrive with change, and you like to explore new places and people, but when it comes to love your partner needs to feel like you’re there for them. They want you to be present, if not physically, then emotionally, and they don’t want to feel like you could leave at any second.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

You need to work on your pessimism, especially when it comes to love. Just because you don’t currently have romantic love in your life, or haven’t for a long time, doesn’t mean you have to swear it off altogether. You’ll only find love if you’re willing to accept it, and if you deem yourself single forever, or think it’s just not meant for you, then it won’t be.


(January 21st to February 18th)

You need to work on saying yes. You like having time to yourself, so when people ask you to do things last minute, or spur of the moment, your answer is no. Try to say yes more often. It will open up your life in little ways that you think are insignificant but actually make you a happier person, and far more open and available to finding love.


(February 19th to March 20th)

You need to work on realizing that romantic gestures won’t fix and/or solve everything. Romance doesn’t always persuade people to forgive and forget, and it doesn’t always make people fall in love either. Don’t attempt to convince someone to love you, find someone who doesn’t need convincing. No amount of roses or chocolates will make someone who doesn’t love you change their mind. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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