The Number One Reason Your Relationships Never Last Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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Brooke Cagle

Aries

(March 21st to April 19th)

Your relationships never last because you hate when things become routine. You want your relationships to be constantly exciting, and when things begin to settle down, you get restless. Every day of your relationship won’t feel like a grand adventure. Learn to love the little things and you’ll begin to really appreciate the person you’re in a relationship with, rather than just the things you do together. It won’t matter what you’re doing when you’re with someone you love. Everything might not feel exciting with them, but it does feel better when they’re there.

Taurus

(April 20th to May 21st)

Your relationships never last because you’re too scared to really let people in. You’re afraid to show them who you really are because you worry everything about you will push them away when they find out. Your flaws are just one part of you, they’re not all of you, and your weaknesses are nothing to be embarrassed about. Everyone has their own insecurity, and they’re all hesitant to let the world know it’s there.

Gemini

(May 22nd to June 21st)

Your relationships never last because you worry what else is out there. You want to make sure that you’ve explored all of your options, but you let some really great people go because of it. If you find yourself having strong feelings for someone, don’t doubt them. Follow your feelings and love the people you want to love. Don’t say goodbye to someone you really like just because you’re wondering if you can find someone better.

Cancer

(June 22nd to July 22nd)

Your relationships never last because you care too much about how your friends and family bond with your significant other. Your S.O. won’t always be as close to your friends as you are, and when you expect them to be, it ruins the relationship. It’s not good for them to hate each other, but if they can communicate and respect each other then you shouldn’t be complaining. There are tons of complicated issues when it comes to family, friends, and dating, if you’ve found someone who likes your family and friends, and who they like in return, and you’re disappointed because they don’t LOVE them, you’re probably going to keep being disappointed.

Leo

(July 23rd to August 22nd)

Your relationships never last because you tend to make things all about you. It’s wonderful to focus on yourself, but not to the extent where it makes your partner feel forgotten. You can’t always be the center of attention. Occasionally your partner wants you to focus on them and not just on yourself.

Virgo

(August 23rd to September 22nd)

Your relationships never last because you self-sabotage. You tell yourself you don’t deserve this person, or that you don’t deserve a relationship at all, and it shows through your actions. If you don’t feel you deserve to be loved, or worse, you don’t really love yourself, how do you expect someone else to do it?

Libra

(September 23rd to October 22nd)

Your relationships never last because you care less about who you’re in a relationship with, and more about whether or not you’re in a relationship. You don’t like to be single, and it causes you to date people for the sake of dating them, rather than actually enjoying the person that they are and growing to love them.

Scorpio

(October 23rd to November 22nd)

Your relationships never last because you doubt that the love they’re showing you is real. You’re slow to trust, and it takes you a while to know that when they say “I love you,” they mean it. You think that maybe they’re into someone else, or looking for something better, but if they consistently prove with their actions that the only person they want is you, then why won’t you believe them?

Sagittarius

(November 23rd to December 21st)

Your relationships never last because you don’t like standing still. You think relationships mean staying in one place and settling down, but a relationship and exploration can happen simultaneously. You don’t have to stop traveling or chasing your dreams simply because you met someone you might love. You can make it work as long as you’re willing to put in the effort.

Capricorn

(December 22nd to January 20th)

Your relationships never last because you put them on the bottom of your priority list. It’s great to concentrate on areas of your life other than love, but if you’re in a relationship you can’t ignore the work that it takes to make it last. Your partner isn’t a chore, they’re a person, and if you’re not ready to treat them like they matter, then don’t have a relationship with them.

Aquarius

(January 21st to February 18th)

Your relationships never last because you’re not the best at expressing your emotions. You’re hesitant to open up because you’re not sure how your feelings will be received, but how they’re received says a lot about the type of person your partner is, and the relationship the two of you have together. You can’t make a relationship last if you hold your feelings in.

Pisces

(February 19th to March 20th)

Your relationships never last because you tend to let people take advantage of your kindness. You do everything for your partner and expect nothing in return, which can be admirable at times, but you do deserve to get as much love out of the relationship as you put into it. Love isn’t all give and no take. It’s a balance of both. TC mark

Nicole Tarkoff

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