13 Women Reveal What They Do When Trying To Be Sexy

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1. “Usually I just put on some hot lingerie. Red lacy panties can make any girl feel sexy.” —Leah, 24

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2. “Not trying to sound conceited, but I rarely ever try to be sexy, I just kind of am. I look sexy in a turtle neck. It’s just me.” —Christina, 25

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3. “I think I’m the most sexy when I’m the most natural. Sure, putting on a tight dress and high heels makes my legs look good, but I think it’s sexy when I’m comfortable being myself, when there’s no need for makeup and heels and short skirts, when I’m just me.” —Alicia, 26

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4. “Red lipstick. It makes me feel daring and edgy. When all attention is on your lips, how is that not sexy?” —Denise, 23

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5. “I’m the most awkward person ever, so me trying to be sexy is like a dog trying to meow. It just doesn’t happen. If I try, I fail miserably. I think being myself is enough, and in a way I guess that is sexy on its own.” —Aimee, 25

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6. “If I’m trying to be sexy for a guy, I’ll usually just wear tight clothing. But being sexy for me and no one else is all about confidence. When I’m confident, I’m sexy.” —Morgan, 24

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7. “Being sexy isn’t all about lingerie and revealing clothing, it’s an attitude. If I’m trying to be sexy I just trick myself into thinking I am sexy, and that usually works. It’s all about whether or not you believe it.” —Nora, 25

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8. “A good spray tan does the trick for me. A nice golden glow is always sexy, especially in December when everyone else looks like Casper.” —Hannah, 23

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9. “I usually have a designated ‘sexy’ outfit. It’s the one outfit I wear if I ever want to get laid. It varies season to season, but usually it’s tight, low cut, or short, and sometimes it’s all three. When I have it on, my friends know I’m on a mission.” —Ally, 23

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10. “I wear a good pair of Spanx, makes everything all tight and compact. They feel sexy when I have clothes over top of them, but if I’m with a guy and he takes them off, eh that’s not so sexy. That rarely happens though, so most times, yes, they make me feel sexy.” —Chloe, 25

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11. “When I’m trying to be sexy, I talk dirty. Anything to do with him on top of me, or me on top of him, that usually gets both of us going, and makes me feel hot in general.” —Paula, 23

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12. “I just make really direct eye contact. I think some people are uncomfortable with that, but I want to be looking at him, so that he knows I’m looking at him for a reason.” —Elise, 25

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13. If I’m with a guy I usually just touch them. Whether it’s my hand on their leg, or my arms around their neck, I think touch is a simple way to show affection, and add a little sex appeal while doing so.” —Cate, 24 TC mark

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  • http://indepthwoman.wordpress.com indepthwoman

    I’m with you on #2, #3, #7, #12 , #13…I know that when I see people trying to be sexy, I know, everyone else notices it too… I’m the most humble person and men find things that I do sexy when I’m not trying.. I’m just myself.. I can’t stand when people say make yourself sexy ,like with photos. If you tell me, it’s not going to come across as sexy, you will see that I’m trying and I’m not trying for a photo. If people have to really try, you probably have no confidence or sex appeal. women we’re already sensual, we just have to tap into that! If some try, it winds up being an epic fail, lol….Its the same with guys, I can’t stand when men try to hard, I can see right through it and its a major turn off.

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