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13 Women Who Have Never Had An Orgasm Talk About Faking It

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1. “I especially fake it during oral. I’ve never had an orgasm from actual sex, so if he thinks he’s getting me off with just his tongue…(LOL).” —Stacey, 20

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2. “My secret is to not get too vocal. I feel like that’s a dead give away for a faker. I stick to subtle moans and heavy breathing. I’ll tilt my head back slightly and breathe like I just went for a run, but a run that turned me on.” —Annabelle, 22

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3. “My fuck buddies are clueless, they think they are ‘fucking my brains out,’ but my brains are still very much intact. When I’m arching my back and running my fingers up and down my own body, it’s because I’m trying to get somewhere you’re not taking me.” —Jordan, 21

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4. “I think there’s something medically wrong with me, but actually. I’ve never faked it though, I just breathe heavily to make him think I could be getting one.” —Marianna, 21

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5. “I hate it when they ask. ‘Did you get off?’ If you have to ask, shouldn’t that hint at something? I’ve never had one, so I don’t know what to expect, but from what I’ve heard I’ll know when I get one, and I’m sure he’ll know too.” —Grace, 22

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6. “Honestly, I mimic porn (in terms of moaning and groaning). I mean he most likely watches it daily, so he’s gotta be familiar with those sounds. I’ll just stick to what he knows, or what he thinks he knows.” —Remi, 20

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7. “Isn’t that sad, though?  I’ve slept with a fair amount of people, and still nothing! All the guys I’ve had sex with always seem pretty pleased with themselves afterwards, so I must be fooling them pretty well, but I don’t intentionally try to ‘trick’ them. Some of the stuff they do feels great, and my body will let them know accordingly. I just haven’t had the complete fireworks, it’s more like a sparkler if that makes sense.” —Trish, 23

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8. “He’s never asked me if I’m faking it, so I assume he just thinks I’m getting off. My friends tell me it’s poor communication, and that I have to tell him. Honestly, I want to tell him, but he will definitely take it personally. Just what I need, a butt-hurt boyfriend who feels so rejected he can’t even touch me. Until then, a little ‘Yeah baby, that’s it’ here and there paired with some open mouthed facial expressions, will have to do” —Deanna, 22

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9. “I feel like a little kid waiting for Christmas. It’s like I have no idea what’s going to be under the tree, but I am BEGGING Santa for it to be something good. Apparently I’ve been on the naughty list because Santa has yet to give me anything.” —Gillian, 21

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10. “I’m an extremely sexual person, and obviously I’m excited when we have sex because I’m horny all day, everyday, but I haven’t gotten the complete ending. It doesn’t really mean I’m faking it. When I’m moaning I am doing it because I’m getting what I want, if it doesn’t feel good I don’t pretend like it does. It just hasn’t felt SO good, not yet.” —Chloe, 21

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11. “Part of me (by part of me I mean my angry, eternally single, feminist alter-ego) wants to use it against him when we argue (especially when it’s that time of month and my hormones are raging). Like when he tells me I was flirting with his best friend at his own party I just want to scream at him, “Shut up! You’ve never even made me cum!” But then I realize that would be really mean, and would probably make him never want to fuck me again. So, yes, I fake it, and would never admit it to him, but only to keep him happy, and to keep him trying.” —Vanessa, 20

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12. “I like to use words of encouragement, “YES, that’s it,” in hopes that he’ll start doing something that will actually get me there. What he does feels good, but it’s like 75 instead of the full 100.” —Natalie, 20

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13. “I’ve never had a long-term boyfriend, so I don’t think a guy has been comfortable enough for him to ask if I faked it. So far, it has gone undetected, but it better happen soon because eventually I’m just going to flat out tell someone, “You didn’t make me cum, and you can’t stop until you do.'” —Illana, 21 TC mark

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