Derrick Freske

What Each Zodiac Element Teaches Us About Love

Fire

Aries (March 21- April 19)

Leo (July 23- August 22)

Sagittarius (November 23- December 21)

Fire signs teach us how to love fearlessly. They show us that sometimes taking a leap of faith is just what we need to have the best love story. This group shows us how to love someone with our whole entire heart, despite the uncertainties relationships may come with. Fire signs are the living, breathing example of what it means to love yourself first before loving someone else. These signs teach us how to keep our sense of individualism in relationships. They show us how to define ourselves outside our “partner” roles. These signs teach us how to have fun with our significant others, as they are also usually known to be complete goofballs. These spontaneous firecrackers show us how to be a light in someone’s life. They show us how to look on the bright side, even if life may be kicking us harder than we expected. These fire signs may be the strongest, most passionate relationships you may ever experience. That’s why the biggest lesson they teach us in love, is that it’s always worth it.

Earth

Capricorn (December 23- January 19)

Taurus (April 20- May 20)

Virgo (August 23- September 22)

Earth signs teach us how to love with stability. These earthly beings show us that the secret to a long-lasting and prosperous relationship, is to always be prepared for whatever storm life may bring. These down-to-earth individuals love slowly. They love to get to know you before committing to anything serious, as they’re not ones to usually fool around. These signs take relationships and courtships very seriously. They teach us that getting to know your potential spouse first is the best way to handle future conflicts that may arise. This group shows us how to take our time with relationships we never want to lose. They teach us the beauty in slow love and getting to know someone exactly as they are. Earth signs bring security to a relationship; they show us how to make our partners feel safe and comfortable, as they will always have someone to rely on.

Air

Aquarius (January 20- February 18)

Gemini (May 21- June 20)

Libra (September 23- October 22)

Air signs teach us how to bring friendship into love. These social butterflies show us that the secret to everlasting love is through its foundation. These air folks aren’t too keen on slow-paced courtship or partnerships, but they most certainly will not open up if you aren’t their friend first. Air signs show us the perks of being genuinely interested in someone—whether it’s their hobbies, the music they like to listen to, or even their fondest childhood memory, these people want to know everything about their potential love interest. They teach us how to form an unbreakable bond with someone. This group shows us how to have that relationship dynamic where you’d no longer mind if they haven’t replied to your text for over an hour. These chatterboxes show us how to love someone as a friend first, as they inevitably believe it strengthens trust and honesty in any relationship.

Water

Pisces (February 19- March 20)

Cancer (June 21- July 22)

Scorpio (October 23- November 22)

Water signs teach us the power of vulnerability in love. These emotionally intelligent creatures show us there is absolutely nothing to fear when opening up to someone we love. This group believes emotional transparency is what makes any partnership worth it for the long haul. These water signs show us the hidden opportunities behind the most difficult moments of a relationship. They teach us how to act with empathy and compassion when we experience turbulent times with our partners, offer understanding when it is easier to jump to conclusions, and love someone with our whole heart, no matter how imperfect they might be. Water signs show us how to establish an emotional connection. These signs want to know your inner demons, your insecurities, and everything you fear. This dream team inevitably teaches us how to be comfortable with the uncomfortable.